Posted by
Joyanna Adams on Sunday, July 27, 2008 12:56:20 AM
TO JAY THE CONSERVATIVE!
Hey..It's Saturday night, and I usually don't post on the weekends, but I just read Jay's post on my "Savages Attack Savage" piece from eariler this week, and of course, being my talkative self, I couldn't post all I was going to say..so I'll say it here..
Hopefully Jay will catch it...because I was moved by his concern...
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I'm an Independent, Jay. But, my piece was basically about the issue of Savage getting attacked by saying a "cruel" thing and it was, like many, taken out of the context of the whole issue. Savage has talked about immuniztions many times, and I agree with YOU about them. If you listened to him every single night as I do, you would also know that he thinks all these medications they are forcing on kids are bad. They are horrible, and most of them unnessary. And they are state mandated. And now, what's even worse Jay---is they are being made in China, with no oversight. My heart goes out to you and your wife.
Savage sometimes, like a man from the "old" school, just says stupid things and makes general remarks without thinking. For the last four days he has been trying to explain what he really meant. All people get tired or stressed. Savage just said a pretty stupid remark and is now paying for it. He was in a bad mood, and just blurted out something which came out pretty cruel. He did this also on his TV program and got fired. But instead of admitting this like Imus did, he refuses and therefore has gotten all this attention.... well, I think he's admitted the mistake, I'm not sure...but in his heart, Savage is a good guy. He just gets emotional.
Nevertheless, the whole pharmaceutical thing is all about profit. And I also think they prefer a drugged society. AND I think they are putting too many kids on Ritilin to keep them drugged. Since you cannot prove your son's condition was caused by these shots, you can't sue. And who would you sue?
My son, was kicked out of school for being sick...he had DSPS..a rare sleeping disorder, and I knew it because I had to do the research on my own to find out...it took me two years to find the correct sleep doctors, but the school didn't care...they kicked him out his senior year without a trial...so in a small way, I know your suffering. You can't fight the government. Not alone. I tried.
I also did not say that autism is the result of lazy parenting...Savage did. Read my piece again...please. The little artistic guy that I lived with "BOBBY", I believe was slighty autistic, (I'm not even sure that's what you would call it) but whatever had happened to him was probably like your son, due to immunizations. Nevertheless, the mother took advantage of that situation because she got after school care for him, (paid by taxpayers) so that she could work till five. PLUS, he got a one on one teacher every day, while all the other poor kids are getting a less than stellar education.
The govenment and the teachers uninon is all about making money. It took me four hard long years to figure that one out. They really don't care a hoot about the kids, or the parents, if the kids dont' fit in the box so to speak. It's very upsetting to the whole system. There are some good teachers, but the smart ones, stay out of the way. The public schools are FUBAR. Really. Especially in the poor areas.
Now, they are mandating all kids go to "preschool" basically as state baby-sitting and propangaizing machines, and since there are more single moms now than married, they love it. Times are rough for two, let alone one parent. Hillary Clinton writes about this in "It takes A Village" she loves the French system...they get them when they are babies. She wanted to implent it, and Bush did.
Jay,...check out www.coasttocoastam.com (it's a late night talk show, it's really great) Do a search on immunizations, they have talked a lot on this stuff, they have a lot of experts on, and can give legal advice, point you to some good websites...
I never said bad parenting caused austism., I didn't mean to imply it. If I did, I was trying to say that some single moms will take advantage of free extra care...Autism is,.of course it's a PHYSICAL condiditon...please...I agree...it's just that sometimes when kids have any kind of disability, a parent can be too protective. I did this with my own son,....kids are smart...even autistic kids can misbehave...and take advantage of a parents good nature. (I'm not saying you're son ever did this...just some can.)
Remember Helen Keller? What a brat she was!She even admitted she was.
Even animals will do this stuff....my dog takes advantage of my good nature all the time. I don't know the name of this, it's a natrual instinct to manipulate..and we all make mistakes, and Savage made a big one. Unless you have lived with a truly autistic kid, you have no idea how tough it is to deal with.
Kinda of like, when you're a man, you can't understand what it's like to be pregant,---so I'm sorry to have brought up the frustrations of what you've been through.
The subject is such a wide one...and we all must be talking about it, because I believe like you...these immuniztions are causing many of these problems. You sound like you've been through the mill, and your son is lucky to have such a loving father..
Don't ever give up, Jay! I miss my "little" "Bobby" each and every day. He no longer lives with me, (His mother and my son divorced) so I will probably never see him again, and my life as far as I am concerned was touched by an angel. He gave me more affection in five months and true love, than I have received from any human being in my life.
We were soul mates...so, now I must stop, before I do a "savage" and say somthing really stupid because I'm stressed out just thinking about how much I miss him.
My prayers are with you Jay..God Be with you, and don't give up!